Signs Your Wife Is Checked Out As long as you focus on your wife as the win… You depend on her. Who is the man behind the marriage? Because when she leaves, you will still be here. This is true with your job and kids too. WHO ARE YOU? Men have lost their indenty. Trying to prove self worth by what they do for a living… If their wife wants them. If their kids respect them. They have no confidence because their strength is dependant on everything, everyone BUT THEMSELVES. I’ve helped almost 8000 m